Bullying

This is a serious problem in school, athletics, children programs, and even children church. Bullying is emotional and psychological abuse! The effects of it can last a lifetime, and even in extreme cases end an innocent child's life!! Children should feel safe when around other children, not living in fear. Every child has the right to live, play and go where they please without treats or being hurt physically or mentally.

It takes adults to intervene when we see a situation arise that is making a child feel uncomfortable. We as parents need to stand up against bullies and teach our children that it is wrong to be mean or pick on other children. I've personally witnessed a child bullying right in front of their parents or mother and nothing was said. I could not believe that a mom would allow their child to hurt another child and not correct the situation. It is not okay or normal childish behavior to want to hurt another child.

I have a personal investment in this topic because my son is very smart and wears glasses. He also has some level of PDD(pervasive developmental disorder). He's in the testing stage right now but he is not socially adequate. Or to put in plain terms really shy and awkward in social situations. He has been a target for quite some time and me partnering with the school have made a real impact on how he was being treated. But my worry is now for the children who are not so lucky. 


It is up to "us" to stand up against bullies and protect children!! Don't wait until "your" child becomes a target before you start teaching them to respect other people. Let someone in charge know if you see a child being bullied and teach your children to do the same. This has made a big difference at my children school and programs. The adults have reacted positively toward improving their acknowledgment toward bullying. I pray that you will become aware and start to help end the problem, so that a child's life may be saved or that they can live happy and healthy!! And if your child is the victim of bullying, I pray the Christ will heal their hearts and sooth their spirits, so that the cycle doesn't continue!

Bully (movie trailer)

Visit http://thebullyproject.com/, Dr. Phil's Anti Bully Movement, 
or Defeat the Label for more info


WLW

Feminine Friday

Hello and welcome to this weeks FF!!
I look forward to seeing all of your feminine clothing or reading your posts on modesty!

Wild about Purple

Ann Taylor shrug = $4.99(goodwill)
purple top = $1(mission thrift store)
Westbound skirt = $3.99(gw)
purple shoes = $1 + DIY(mts)

I'm trying something new this Friday and adding the details of my FF posts! Please take time to visit my sidebar and vote on whether you would like to see details added each week. If so, which ones, and any additional info or special suggestions please leave a comment below!

thrift store shopping

Well, spring is here or almost anyway! So, I went on a little seasonal shopping spree. I found some awesome deals and didn't spend a lot of money. Here is what I got in my latest thrift store haul!

 Calvin Klein = $3.99 (goodwill)

 Cato = $1 (mission thrift)

Madison = $3.99 (goodwill)

Ann Taylor = $1 (mission thrift)

Limited 100% silk = $1 (mission thrift)

Ann Taylor new $88 on tag = $4.99 (goodwill)

Miss Ashley = $1 (mission thrift)

NYDJ/Not Your Daughters Jeans = $6.99 (goodwill)

hounds-tooth trench w/zip out lining = $1 (mission thrift)

Lauren by Ralph Lauren = $6.99 (goodwill)

scarf on purse =$1.99 (goodwill)

coral 100% silk scarf, 

Kenneth Cole(zig zag)

Stein Mart(layer green)

Coldwater Creek(blue)

 = $1.99 ea (goodwill)

Cato (black) = $1 (mission thrift)

Gianna Bini (purple) = $9.99 (goodwill)

Just Say No

Being a yes person may seem like a good idea, but it can have consequences. You can lose yourself when your life has been taken over by other peoples request. I know this all too well! So, I'm learning to say no to others and say yes to myself. I now make sure to block some time slots out for some rest and relaxation.

As a mom I have a soft spot for my children. They are easily the most keen at cashing in on getting the benefits of my "guilt" parenting or getting away with murder because I'm too tired to say no. But as a mom, I'm starting to learn one important thing. And that is that, NO CHILD EVER DIED FROM THE WORD NO!!!!! Whew...that felt great to just type it out....lol I mean I'm serious, I remember the first time I told my little ones no more often. I thought it would kill them and yet, they pouted, and sulked, but were okay after a while. I braced from the storm and it never came. Well sign me up for this no business! I now have learned to stop what I'm doing, and evaluate my kids request. I never want to regret my decision later because I didn't take time to weigh the options. They have in turn become better at not asking for extras that they don't need. I even take time out to explain why they can't go or can't have. So, there's a "no" with an explanation attached.

As a SAHM, I found myself saying yes to outside activities that put a strain on my homemaking. Keeping my home has now become my first priority. I love how the MP3 download Just Say No says "If you feel what you are doing is a chore, you are probably working outside your natural blessing." So, you maybe are not going to be happy leading a bible study at church, when you are terrified of public speaking. Or feel overwhelmed at decorating the school play when you can't paint. So I've learned to only say yes, if it feels right!


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