July 21, 2009

All the Single Ladies

For all the single ladies out there. Do you realize that you stand in a very powerful position at this time in your life, when you can choose a life long partner. So choose wisely. This decision will affect you for the rest of your life and your (future) children's lives. First, it is not about what you want, but what you need in a husband. Those two are completely different altogether. Wants are optional, whereas needs are mandatory! Some of you are not really sure what you need, but have already made lists of what you want. You may want six pack abs, but really need a protector, both spiritually and physically. You may want a rich man, but what you need is a budget conscious man who will give you all that he has to make sure you and his family are well provided for. You may even want a man who has no kids, but what you need is a man who loves children, and is a good father already. See the difference. I'm not sure what God has in store for you, just giving a little insight of how things you want and need can be different. You have the opportunity to make a great decision or make a huge mistake that will impact you for the rest of your life. So, pray for Christ to aide you on your journey of meeting your future husband.

The first step in looking for a husband is not to look for a husband. The scripture says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. Let him find you! Just live your life and let God do His perfect will. He is very detailed, even when it comes to whom pursues whom. He loves us so much that so He gives us a guide through His word on how we should live our lives.

Pray always! Not just for a husband, but in all things. Keep communication with God open to improve your life. He may not answer when you want Him too, but He always answers when you need Him.

Keep living your life. Yes ma'am keep doing you. Don't sit around and waste your time on thinking about getting a husband. You have a life to live right now and in some cases children to think about. You also have, most importantly, your Father's mission for your life to tend to on top of all else.

Do you know that even though you are single you are already married? You are married to the most high God, who is the king of kings and Lord of Lords! Who can top that!?! You already have a shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to, help raising your children, to add to your finances etc.... Whatever you need, just ask your heavenly husband who is always faithful. Be faithful to your heavenly husband, because He sees and knows all. Sounds ridiculous when you look at fornication in that light. He wants you to be pure, holy, and faithful to Him. Then He will take on the role as father and send you a worthy husband. Not anyone will do for his princess, so know that He will send someone who meets His standards. Until then, live your life as His bride. You are the ultimate "first lady" and don't ever let anyone tell you different. Walk and live your life with your head held high!
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